Few beach cities in Mexico balance natural beauty, culture, and nightlife quite like Puerto Vallarta. Between its lush mountains, turquoise bay, and vibrant LGBTQ+ scene, it’s a destination that truly has it all — from lazy beach days and sunset cocktails to art strolls and unforgettable nights out. Whether it’s your first visit or a return trip, this 5-day itinerary blends the best of local culture, adventure, and relaxation.
Start your Puerto Vallarta getaway by checking into your hotel in Zona Romántica, the city’s charming heart filled with cafés, boutiques, and palm-lined streets. Spend your first afternoon exploring the Malecón, a seaside promenade dotted with art installations, live music, and street performers. While on the Malecon, head over to tour the beautiful Church of Our Lady of Guadelupe. Don’t miss the sunset — it’s one of the best in Mexico.
Dinner Options:
- La Palapa – A Puerto Vallarta classic since 1959, serving refined Mexican coastal cuisine right on the beach with toes-in-the-sand dining and an unbeatable sunset view.
- Pancho’s Takos – A must-visit for taco lovers; their tacos al pastor are legendary among locals and visitors alike.
After-Dinner Entertainment:
La Noche Bar – This three-level bar features lively drag performances, a rooftop terrace with city views, and an energetic late-night crowd that perfectly captures Vallarta’s playful spirit.
Day 2 – Day Trip: Marietas Islands or Sayulita & San Pancho
Start your morning with breakfast at Coco’s Kitchen, a cozy garden café known for its hearty omelets, fresh pastries, and tropical fruit smoothies.
Then head out for a day trip beyond the bay — two amazing options await:
- Marietas Islands: Explore this UNESCO-protected marine park filled with crystal-clear waters, colorful fish, and seabirds. Snorkel, kayak, or visit the famous Hidden Beach (Playa del Amor).
- Sayulita & San Pancho: Discover Nayarit’s surf-town charm, just over an hour north. Sayulita buzzes with boutiques, beach bars, and boho energy, while nearby San Pancho offers art galleries and a calmer, more refined vibe.
Return to Puerto Vallarta in the evening and freshen up for dinner.
Dinner Options:
- Joe Jack’s Fish Shack – A lively seafood spot famous for its fresh fish tacos, rooftop terrace, and mojitos that pack a punch.
- Tacos Sonorita Olas Altas – A no-frills favorite for grilled tacos and flavorful salsas, perfect after a day in the sun.
After Dinner:
- Corner Bar – A relaxed neighborhood favorite for cocktails and good conversation.
- Reinas Bar – A campy, royal-themed bar known for its fun crowd, great music, and friendly vibe.
Day 3 – Beach Clubs & Evening Fun
Start your morning with a hearty breakfast at The Pancake House or Freddy’s Toucan — both Vallarta institutions beloved for generous portions and classic diner charm.
Next, head to one of the city’s premier beach clubs for a day of sun, cocktails, and ocean views:
- Mantamar Beach Club – The city’s most iconic gay beach club with live DJs, pool parties, and beachside service.
- Sapphire Ocean Club – A stylish, relaxed alternative with a full menu, attentive service, and a more low-key atmosphere.
Lunch:
- Enjoy poolside dining at your beach club — both serve fresh seafood, tropical salads, and refreshing cocktails.
Dinner Options:
- Margarita PV – A stylish restaurant and cocktail bar with a fun, friendly crowd and creative twists on Mexican classics.
- Restaurante PALMAR Seafood & Grill Garage – Known for perfectly grilled seafood and a casual-chic design that feels both urban and coastal.
After Dinner:
Enjoy some world class entertainment at either ACT 2 Theater or the Palm Cabaret. Act2PV is known for its high-quality, Broadway-style productions, cabaret shows, and concerts across multiple stages, making it one of Puerto Vallarta’s premier live entertainment venues. The Palm Cabaret & Bar is celebrated for its intimate atmosphere and top-notch drag, comedy, and tribute performances that have become a cornerstone of the city’s LGBTQ+ nightlife scene.
Afterwards:
- Mr. Flamingo – An open-air corner bar where the crowd spills into the street and the party never stops.
- CC Slaughters – A popular dance club with nightly events, great DJs, and a big, friendly crowd.
Day 4 – Adventure on the Water + Night Out in Style
Fuel up with breakfast at The Porch or Café de Olla — both cozy local favorites serving great coffee and traditional Mexican breakfasts.
Then set sail for an all-day adventure with one of Puerto Vallarta’s famous gay boat tours:
- Jet’s Naked Beach Tour – A lively, adults-only cruise featuring snorkeling, dancing, open bar, and stops at secluded beaches.
- Tamale’s Tours – Another fun-filled option with beach time, water sports, and a welcoming, festive crowd.
Return to shore in the late afternoon and relax before heading out for a memorable dinner.
Dinner Options:
- Oscar’s Restaurant – An elegant riverside restaurant on Isla Cuale serving gourmet Mexican cuisine with a romantic view.
- Il Pesce Cucina Di Mare – A refined Italian seafood restaurant featuring handmade pastas, fine wines, and ocean-inspired decor.
After Dinner:
- One Six One PV – A sleek, modern lounge with excellent mixology and a cosmopolitan feel.
- Diablitos Cantina – A lively, colorful spot for late-night cocktails and people-watching.
Day 5 – Relax, Pool Party & Farewell
Ease into your final morning with breakfast at Bean & Brick or Mi Café Restaurant & Coffee Shop, both great for specialty coffee and hearty brunches.
If you’re in town on a Saturday, join the iconic Casa Cupula Naked Pool Party — an upbeat afternoon bash with DJs, cocktails, and panoramic city views. Prefer something more laid-back? Head back to Sapphire Beach Club for one last afternoon swim and beachside cocktail.
Before dinner, head to Isla Cuale, you’ll find a charming stretch of open-air stalls and artisan shops selling handmade crafts, jewelry, textiles, and souvenirs.
Dinner Options:
- Café des Artistes – Puerto Vallarta’s most celebrated fine dining experience, blending French technique with local ingredients in an elegant garden setting.
- Andale’s Restaurant & Bar – A Vallarta institution known for hearty Mexican dishes, flowing margaritas, and a rooftop that turns into a party after dark.
After Dinner:
- Garbo’s Piano Bar – An intimate piano lounge with live jazz, martinis, and an easygoing, classy vibe.
- Frida’s Bar – A relaxed, friendly spot perfect for a final cocktail before saying hasta luego to Puerto Vallarta.
Gay-Friendly Places to Stay in Puerto Vallarta
Overview:
Tryst Hotel is a chic, gay boutique hotel located in the heart of Zona Romantica which recently opened. Known for its trendy design and vibrant social atmosphere, Tryst caters to travelers looking for a unique, stylish experience while staying close to Puerto Vallarta’s nightlife.
Highlights:
- Trendy Aesthetic: Tryst’s interiors are modern and stylish, with a touch of bohemian flair. The rooms are decorated with local art and vibrant colors that create a lively ambiance.
- Social Courtyard and Rooftop: Tryst’s open courtyard is a popular gathering spot for guests, while the rooftop lounge offers beautiful views and is a great spot for evening drinks.
- Walking Distance to Nightlife: Located steps away from popular gay bars, restaurants, and Playa Los Muertos, Tryst is perfect for those looking to dive into the local social scene.
Overview:
Almar Resort stands out as one of Puerto Vallarta’s few gay-dedicated beachfront resorts. Located near Playa Los Muertos, this luxurious resort offers both a relaxing stay and a lively social scene, thanks to its proximity to the beach and popular gay bars.
Highlights:
- Beachfront Access: Located steps from the beach, Almar Resort is perfect for sunbathing, water sports, or just lounging.
- Mantamar Beach Club: This beach club is the ultimate social spot, complete with a pool, rooftop bar, and frequent gay events.
- Modern Rooms with Ocean Views: Rooms and suites are stylishly designed, many featuring ocean views and private balconies.
Overview:
Recently opened, great reviews from customers. Spartacus Hostel fills a void with the closure of Jet’s Hostel. Clothing optional.
Highlights:
- Great Location: Located at Pilitas & Amapas makes a perfect place close to Playa Muertos and the bars in Zona Romantica
- Affordable Rates: Spartacus Hostel is one of the most affordable places in Puerto Vallarta plus guests get a special discount at Spartacus Sauna.
FAQS
How do I get to Puerto Vallarta?
Most visitors arrive via Licenciado Gustavo Díaz Ordaz International Airport (PVR), located just 15 minutes from downtown. The airport has direct flights from major cities in the U.S., Canada, and Mexico year-round.
What’s the best way to get around Puerto Vallarta?
Within Zona Romántica and downtown, walking is the easiest way to explore. For longer distances, taxis, Uber, and local buses are affordable and widely available.
Is Puerto Vallarta gay-friendly?
Yes — Puerto Vallarta is considered the most LGBTQ+-friendly destination in Mexico. The city offers inclusive hotels, beach clubs, and nightlife, especially concentrated in Zona Romántica.
When is the best time to visit Puerto Vallarta?
The best weather is from November to May, when it’s sunny and dry. Summer brings warmer temperatures and occasional rain, but it’s also less crowded and often more affordable.
What are the top beaches to visit?
Playa Los Muertos is the most popular and centrally located, while Conchas Chinas and Playa Gemelas offer quieter escapes with turquoise waters. For adventure, take a water taxi to Yelapa or Las Ánimas.
Where should I stay in Puerto Vallarta?
Stay in Zona Romántica for vibrant nightlife and beach access, Marina Vallarta for upscale resorts, or Conchas Chinas for romantic ocean-view villas. Each area offers a unique vibe and range of accommodations.
What are the must-do activities?
Don’t miss a sunset on the Malecón, a day trip to Sayulita, or snorkeling at the Marietas Islands. Foodies should also explore Vallarta’s growing fine dining scene and lively street taco stands.
What are the bar and club options in Puerto Vallarta?
Puerto Vallarta Gay Bar, Clubs and Sauna Guide
Is Puerto Vallarta safe for travelers?
Yes, Puerto Vallarta is considered one of Mexico’s safest resort cities. Exercise standard precautions, especially at night, but most visitors find the city welcoming and easy to navigate.
What’s the local cuisine like?
Puerto Vallarta’s food scene blends coastal Mexican flavors with international influence. Expect fresh seafood, tacos al pastor, ceviche, and inventive fine dining at restaurants like Café des Artistes and La Palapa.
How many days do I need in Puerto Vallarta?
Five days is perfect for a first visit — enough time to enjoy beaches, nightlife, and a day trip or two. If you want to explore more of the surrounding coast or simply relax, a week is even better.
Conclusion
Puerto Vallarta is one of those rare destinations that has it all — natural beauty, vibrant nightlife, world-class dining, and an easygoing charm that makes everyone feel welcome. Whether you’re lounging on Los Muertos Beach, exploring art galleries in Zona Romántica, or dancing the night away under the stars, it’s the kind of place that captures your heart and keeps you coming back. With this five-day itinerary, you’ll experience the best of the city — from beach clubs and day trips to culinary highlights and unforgettable nights out.
About the Author
Tim is a seasoned gay travel writer and the creator of Out in Mexico, a dedicated resource for gay travelers exploring Mexico’s vibrant destinations. After relocating to Guadalajara, he has spent years immersing himself in Mexico’s gay culture, from the iconic beaches of Puerto Vallarta to the nightlife of Mexico City.
With firsthand experience in Mexico’s gay scene, Tim has personally visited the bars, hotels, and events featured in this guide. His insights have helped gay travelers plan unforgettable trips while ensuring they feel safe, welcomed, and informed.
When he’s not writing, you’ll find him sipping a mezcal cocktail at a bar in Colonia Americana or travel to a new exciting destination in Mexico.
📍 Follow his adventures: @i.am.out.in.mexico
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