Few destinations in Mexico balance luxury, adventure, and LGBTQ+ inclusivity quite like Los Cabos. With two distinct personalities — the high-energy beaches and nightlife of Cabo San Lucas and the artsy, laid-back vibe of San José del Cabo — this sun-soaked corner of Baja California Sur offers something for every kind of traveler. Whether you’re looking for a romantic resort hideaway, a stylish boutique stay, or a social, budget-friendly base near the action, Los Cabos has welcoming accommodations to match.
Here are 10 of the best gay-friendly places to stay in Los Cabos — each known for its inclusive atmosphere, excellent service, and unforgettable Baja charm.
Right on Medano Beach in the heart of Cabo San Lucas, ME Cabo is a lifestyle resort perfect for travelers who love to mix luxury with social energy. Known for its pool parties, live DJs, and inclusive atmosphere, it’s a top choice for LGBTQ+ visitors who want to be close to nightlife and the beach.
- Amenities: Beach club with cabanas, infinity pool, spa, fitness center, several restaurants and bars
- Known For: Trendy, youthful vibe with a high-energy social scene steps from the sand
The Cape is one of Cabo’s most stylish hotels, offering sweeping views of El Arco and a refined, design-forward atmosphere. Its sleek rooms, rooftop lounge, and curated dining experiences make it a favorite among LGBTQ+ travelers seeking a modern, sophisticated stay.
- Amenities: Rooftop bar and lounge, infinity pool, luxury spa, ocean-view rooms and suites
- Known For: Contemporary style, breathtaking views, and a buzzy but elegant social atmosphere
One of Los Cabos’ most iconic properties, One&Only Palmilla offers ultra-luxury in a lush, secluded setting along the Tourist Corridor. It’s known for its world-class service, private beaches, and romantic atmosphere, making it ideal for couples and special occasions.
- Amenities: Private beach, championship golf course, multiple gourmet restaurants, expansive spa
- Known For: Discreet luxury, personalized service, and a tranquil, exclusive atmosphere
With its striking architecture, cascading water features, and serene coastal setting, Viceroy Los Cabos is a design lover’s dream. The resort blends sleek modern style with high-end amenities and is consistently praised for its welcoming, inclusive approach.
- Amenities: Ocean-view pools, rooftop bar, fine dining, spa and wellness center
- Known For: Bold contemporary design, high-end service, and a calming seaside retreat
The JW Marriott combines traditional resort amenities with contemporary design and excellent service. Guests love the oceanfront infinity pools, expansive spa, and variety of on-site restaurants, all in a warm and inclusive environment.
- Amenities: Multiple pools, spa, beach access, fitness center, several restaurants and bars
- Known For: Full-service luxury with a welcoming atmosphere for all travelers
Located in the heart of San José del Cabo’s art district, The Drift offers a laid-back, design-forward experience ideal for travelers who want to immerse themselves in local culture. With its minimalist aesthetic and intimate vibe, it’s a perfect choice for couples or solo travelers.
- Amenities: Courtyard bar, plunge pool, stylish minimalist rooms, walking distance to galleries and restaurants
- Known For: Central location, creative design, and a quiet yet social atmosphere
Solaz blends boutique character with resort-style amenities, offering a stylish beachfront stay along the Tourist Corridor. Its thoughtful design, gorgeous landscaping, and welcoming environment make it a standout for LGBTQ+ travelers.
- Amenities: Beachfront pool, spa, on-site dining, gardens, fitness facilities
- Known For: Design-driven spaces, excellent location, and balance of comfort and sophistication
Set in the heart of San José del Cabo’s historic center, Casa Natalia is a charming 18-room boutique hotel that blends local art, lush gardens, and warm hospitality. It’s especially popular with couples seeking a romantic, intimate base close to galleries, restaurants, and nightlife.
- Amenities: Heated pool, rooftop terraces, in-house restaurant and oyster bar, curated art and décor
- Known For: Personalized service, artistic details, and a romantic, European-inspired ambiance
Mayan Monkey is a lively, LGBTQ-friendly hostel-hotel hybrid that’s perfect for budget travelers and solo adventurers. With a rooftop bar, pool, and regular social events, it’s one of the most fun places to meet new people while staying close to Cabo’s beaches and nightlife.
- Amenities: Rooftop bar and pool, shared kitchen, events and parties, private and shared rooms
- Known For: Social atmosphere, affordability, and a prime central location
Overlooking the marina in Cabo San Lucas, Tesoro is a comfortable, centrally located hotel that’s easy on the wallet without sacrificing convenience. It’s a great option for travelers who plan to spend most of their time exploring and want a welcoming, reliable base.
- Amenities: Outdoor pool, fitness center, on-site restaurant and bar, marina views
- Known For: Excellent location, solid value, and straightforward comfort for budget-minded guests
LOS CABOS FAQS
Are hotels in Los Cabos generally LGBTQ+ friendly?
Yes, most hotels in Los Cabos are welcoming and inclusive, especially in the main tourist areas. Many actively promote diversity and host LGBTQ+ travelers year-round.
Is it safe for LGBTQ+ couples to travel in Los Cabos?
Absolutely — Los Cabos is considered one of the safest and most welcoming destinations in Mexico for queer travelers. Public affection is generally accepted, especially in tourist areas and resorts.
Which area is better to stay in — Cabo San Lucas or San José del Cabo?
Cabo San Lucas is best for nightlife, beaches, and social energy, while San José offers a more relaxed, cultural atmosphere. Many travelers split their trip to enjoy the best of both worlds.
Are there hotels that host LGBTQ+ events or parties?
Yes, some properties — especially lifestyle resorts like ME Cabo and social stays like Mayan Monkey — host themed parties, drag shows, or Pride events. Check event calendars or inquire in advance.
What’s the best time of year to visit Los Cabos?
The best weather is from November to May, with sunny days and comfortable temperatures. June is also a great time to visit if you want to experience Los Cabos Pride.
Are there options for LGBTQ+ travelers on a budget?
Definitely — hotels like Mayan Monkey and Tesoro offer budget-friendly stays without compromising on inclusivity. They’re great choices for solo travelers, groups, or those planning shorter trips.
Do any hotels offer same-sex wedding or commitment ceremony services?
Yes, luxury properties like One&Only Palmilla and The Cape are known to host same-sex weddings and special celebrations. It’s best to contact the hotel directly to discuss packages and details.
Can LGBTQ+ travelers book romantic experiences like couples’ spa treatments?
Absolutely — most resorts offer couples’ treatments and romantic amenities without discrimination. Staff are typically welcoming and experienced in hosting queer couples.
How far in advance should I book my hotel?
During peak season (November to April), it’s best to book at least 2–3 months in advance. If you’re planning to visit during Pride or major holidays, aim for even earlier to secure your top choice.
FINAL THOUGHTS
Whether you’re dreaming of sipping cocktails by a rooftop pool, wandering through art galleries before dinner, or meeting new friends at a social hostel, Los Cabos offers LGBTQ+ travelers an incredible range of welcoming stays. From ultra-luxury resorts that redefine indulgence to affordable hotels perfect for a quick beach escape, every property on this list combines comfort, location, and inclusivity. No matter which side of Cabo you choose — the lively beaches of Cabo San Lucas or the creative energy of San José del Cabo — you’ll find the perfect base to relax, explore, and feel at home.
About the Author
Tim is a seasoned gay travel writer and the creator of Out in Mexico, a dedicated resource for gay travelers exploring Mexico’s vibrant destinations. After relocating to Guadalajara, he has spent years immersing himself in Mexico’s gay culture, from the iconic beaches of Puerto Vallarta to the nightlife of Mexico City.
With firsthand experience in Mexico’s gay scene, Tim has personally visited the bars, hotels, and events featured in this guide. His insights have helped gay travelers plan unforgettable trips while ensuring they feel safe, welcomed, and informed.
When he’s not writing, you’ll find him sipping a mezcal cocktail at a bar in Colonia Americana or travel to a new exciting destination in Mexico.
📍 Follow his adventures: @i.am.out.in.mexico
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