Bacalar is one of those rare places that instantly feels like a dream. Tucked away near the Belize border in the southern part of Quintana Roo, this small Pueblo Mágico is famous for its spectacular “Lagoon of Seven Colors”—a freshwater lake so vividly blue, it’s often mistaken for the Caribbean Sea. As someone living in Mexico and exploring the Yucatán frequently, I can tell you: Bacalar has a way of getting under your skin in the best possible way.
Unlike the party scenes in Tulum or Puerto Vallarta, Bacalar is ideal for gay travelers looking to unwind in a slower, more soulful destination. It’s all about nature, serenity, and low-key luxury, with a dose of culture and adventure. Whether I’m traveling solo or bringing friends along, I always feel safe, welcome, and completely at ease in Bacalar’s relaxed, inclusive atmosphere.
Bacalar is about 4 – 5 hours south of Playa del Carmen and Tulum by car via Highway 307. I’ve made the drive several times—it’s long, but easy, especially if you break it up with stops at roadside cenotes or taco stands. ADO buses also run daily from Cancún, Tulum, and Chetumal, making it accessible for budget travelers.
If you’re flying in, the closest airport is Chetumal (CTM), only 45 minutes away, with regular flights from Mexico City. And with the new Tren Maya connecting Bacalar to the rest of the Yucatán Peninsula, travel just got even easier—and more sustainable. If you enjoy the freedom of exploring on your own, renting a car is a great option for visiting nearby ruins and cenotes.
Gay‑Friendly Accommodations in Bacalar
Bacalar doesn’t do mega-resorts—and that’s part of its charm. Instead, you’ll find boutique hotels, eco-retreats, and design-forward bungalows that reflect the area’s natural beauty. On my visits, I’ve stayed at a mix of these places and love how they each bring something different to the table.
A beautifully designed eco-luxury hotel by architect Frida Escobedo. The treehouse-style villas feel like you’re floating among the trees. I stayed here on a quiet solo trip, and it felt like a wellness retreat for the soul.
This place is all about community, sustainability, and relaxation. Mornings start with yoga, afternoons are for kayaking, and evenings end around a fire pit. The crowd is creative, open, and often international—very gay-friendly.
Earthy, minimalist design with a touch of luxury. Their spa treatments and private dock make it a favorite of mine when I want to treat myself. It’s great for couples or solo travelers looking to unwind in style.
📍Mid-Range: MBH MAYA BACALAR
A modern option with upscale amenities and private decks overlooking the lagoon. Ideal if you’re craving a bit more indulgence while still being close to nature.
A fun, social hostel right on the water. It offers private rooms as well as dorms, so it’s perfect for budget-conscious travelers or digital nomads. I’ve met great people here over happy hour drinks and sunset views.
Where to Eat in Bacalar
For a small town, Bacalar has an impressive and ever-growing food scene. I make it a point to try somewhere new every time I’m back—and I’ve found everything from vegan bowls to wood-fired pizza and mezcal cocktails by the water.
- La Playita – A personal favorite. It’s laid-back, has great cocktails, and sits right on the lagoon. I’ve spent entire afternoons here with friends, snacking on ceviche and watching the colors shift in the water.
- Ixchel Bacalar – A relaxed and modern brunch spot popular with locals and visitors alike. It has a shaded garden patio, great coffee, and a creative menu that puts a twist on breakfast classics. I came here after a morning swim and loved the chilaquiles and fresh juices—perfect start to the day.
- Costera 28 – One of Bacalar’s most stylish restaurants, this spot offers elevated Mexican cuisine with a romantic lagoonfront setting. It’s ideal for a date night or special dinner—the presentation is gorgeous, the cocktails are well-crafted, and the sunset views are hard to beat. I always recommend making a reservation if you want a table near the water.
- Nixtamal – Upscale Mexican cuisine with bold flavors and local ingredients. I love their take on traditional dishes, and the mezcal menu is excellent.
- Mango y Chile – Vegan, colorful, and very Instagram-friendly. Even if you’re not vegan, the burgers and smoothie bowls are surprisingly satisfying. The view is also unbeatable.
- Enamora Bacalar – My go-to for brunch. Their garden patio and fresh juices make for a perfect slow morning before heading out to the water.
- Savora Bacalar – Cozy Italian with wood-fired pizzas and homemade pastas. I went here for a low-key date night, and it was absolutely perfect.
- Nao Bacalar – Sushi with a Mexican twist and amazing sunset views. Great for a more elegant night out without feeling too formal.
- El Manatí – A café/art gallery/shop combo that’s perfect for a chill breakfast or lunch. The vibe is very bohemian, and they support local artists and food producers.
Top Things to do in Bacalar
Lagoon of Seven Colors Boat Tours
The best way to experience Bacalar’s famous seven colors is on the water. Join a small-group sailboat tour or rent a private pontoon to visit cenotes, birdwatching islands, and the Pirates’ Channel. I’ve done both, and while the pontoon is great with friends and drinks, there’s something truly peaceful about sailing with just the breeze carrying you across the lagoon. It’s a moment that makes you pause and appreciate how special this place really is.
Floating Down Los Rápidos
This narrow stretch of turquoise water with a gentle current is like nature’s version of a lazy river. You can float for hours, grab a drink at the eco-bar, or just chill on the wooden platforms. I always recommend visitors bring water shoes for this spot—it’s a bit rocky, but the stromatolites (ancient living formations) make it otherworldly.
Lagoon Kayaking & Paddleboarding
Mornings are the best time to head out on a kayak or paddleboard, especially when the water is calm and mirror-like. I love paddling out early before breakfast and catching the light ripple of the sunrise over the lagoon. Some hotels provide gear, but even if yours doesn’t, rentals are easy to find.
Swim at Cenote Azul
Located just outside of town, Cenote Azul is massive and incredibly deep—like staring into a giant sapphire. I usually stop here for a swim and a cold drink after a morning of exploring. There’s a simple restaurant where you can grab lunch with a cenote view and dive right in from the dock afterward.
See the Stromalites at Cenote Cocalitos
This eco-park is one of the most photogenic spots in Bacalar. It’s known for its crystal-clear water, hammocks, and massive stromatolites. I always tell visitors: arrive early, bring a dry bag, and just float. It’s peaceful, surreal, and one of my favorite spots to relax with a book and a cold coconut.
Right in the heart of town, this 18th-century fort offers a quick dose of history with panoramic views of the lagoon. I’ve visited it around golden hour, and the light from the sun makes the stone walls glow while casting the lagoon in soft pastels. Inside, there’s a small museum that’s great for learning more about Bacalar’s pirate-filled past.
I recommend taking a tour so you can cover both of these sites in one day. They are roughly 1.5 – 2 hours from Bacalar. These are some of my favorite lesser-known ruins in the Yucatán. I love how quiet it is—you can climb pyramids, wander the jungle paths, and sometimes have entire plazas to yourself. Keep an eye (and ear) out for howler monkeys in the trees.
Gay -Friendly Bacalar FAQS
Is Bacalar gay-friendly?
Yes! While it’s a small town, Bacalar is welcoming and relaxed. There’s no official gay scene, but I’ve always felt totally comfortable here. Locals are used to LGBTQ+ travelers, especially at boutique hotels, cafés, and tours.
Are there gay bars or clubs in Bacalar?
No dedicated gay bars, but most places are mixed and friendly. When I want a big night out, I’ll stop through Playa del Carmen or Tulum first. But honestly, I come to Bacalar for the opposite vibe—chill, nature-forward, and intimate.
Is Bacalar safe for gay couples?
Absolutely. I’ve been here with friends and partners and never had an issue. Public affection is common among tourists, and I’ve never experienced any discomfort from locals or hotel staff.
When’s the best time to visit Bacalar?
November through May is ideal—dry, sunny, and perfect for lagoon activities. I’ve also visited during the rainy season (June–October), and while you may get afternoon showers, it’s quiet and lush with fewer tourists and lower prices.
Can I swim in the lagoon?
Yes, and you absolutely should! The water is warm, safe, and stunningly clear. Just remember to skip sunscreen and bug spray before entering—it damages the ecosystem. I always bring a rash guard and biodegradable products if needed.
Is Bacalar expensive?
Compared to Cancún or Tulum, Bacalar is a great value, but prices are going up. That said, I’ve done both budget trips staying in hostels and more luxe weekends at design hotels—there’s something for every traveler.
Do I need a car in Bacalar?
It depends on your plans. The town is walkable and easy to explore by bike or taxi. But if you want to visit ruins or hidden cenotes, renting a car will make a big difference. I’ve done both and prefer having wheels when staying more than a few days.
Are there clothing-optional beaches or gay beaches?
No, but you can rock a speedo or short swim trunks just about anywhere with no problem. If you’re craving full nudity or a more uninhibited scene, I usually recommend Zipolite—it’s the go-to spot for that on Mexico’s Pacific coast.
Is WiFi reliable in Bacalar?
For the most part, yes. I’ve worked remotely from cafés and hotel rooms with decent speeds, though it can dip during storms or if you’re outside of town. I always double-check with my accommodation ahead of time if I plan to work while visiting.
Can I work remotely from Bacalar?
Definitely. I’ve spent multiple weeks working from Bacalar and found it peaceful and productive. Some hotels are better equipped than others, but lagoonfront cafés and quiet hotels make it an underrated digital nomad escape.
Final Thoughts
Bacalar may not have the same flashy nightlife or gay-centric venues as Tulum or Puerto Vallarta, but that’s part of its magic. This peaceful lagoon town is all about slowing down, connecting with nature, and embracing a more mindful kind of travel. Whether you’re kayaking through crystal-clear waters, exploring ancient ruins, or sipping cocktails as the sun dips behind the horizon, Bacalar welcomes gay travelers with open arms and easygoing vibes. It’s the perfect place to unwind, recharge, and enjoy the beauty of Mexico’s Caribbean side—without the crowds.
While you won’t find rainbow flags flying from every corner, inclusivity is woven into the laid-back spirit of Bacalar. From friendly locals to gay-welcoming hotels and tour operators, it’s a destination where you can feel comfortable being yourself. So pack your swim briefs, bring an eco-friendly attitude, and get ready to discover one of Mexico’s most underrated gems. Bacalar isn’t just a place to visit—it’s a place to exhale.
About the Author
Tim is a seasoned travel writer and the creator of Out in Mexico, a dedicated resource for gay travelers exploring Mexico’s vibrant destinations. After relocating to Guadalajara, he has spent years immersing himself in Mexico’s gay culture, from the iconic beaches of Puerto Vallarta to the nightlife of Mexico City.
With firsthand experience in Mexico’s gay scene, Tim has personally visited the bars, hotels, and events featured in this guide. His insights have helped gay travelers plan unforgettable trips while ensuring they feel safe, welcomed, and informed.
When he’s not writing, you’ll find him sipping a mezcal cocktail at a bar in Guadalajara or travel to a new exciting destination in Mexico.
📍 Follow his adventures: @i.am.out.in.mexico
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